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Excellent Sites with Info on Emotional Abuse
Dr. Ronald Bissell
The Dynamics of Abuse
What IS Verbal /Emotional Abuse?
Are YOU Being Emotionally/Verbally Abused?
He uses HIS Guilt against YOU
Hurtful Words
Ask Yourself these questions
How To Spot A Verbal Abuser On The First Date
The Abuser's Body Language
Some Men Don't Realize That They Are Verbal Abusers
Women Can Be Verbal Abusers As Well
Frequently Asked Questions About Verbal Abuse
A Biblical Perspective on Verbal Abuse
Abusive Personalities on TV
Forging Self Confidence
A Positive Attitude
Cultivating Self Esteem
Strengthen Your Self Confidence
Jan Sporri's Tips to Bolster Your Self Esteem
Work On Being Attractive
Help Yourself
Seeking Guidance
Talking To Your Critical Voices
Love Yourself
Stress Relief
Take Comfort With You
YOU are Special
Your Happiness
You Are No Different
When you ridicule ME
Choose Your Words Well
Your Tongue
Exercise Special Care With Your Children
Defeat Of The Tongue

A well known speaker started off his seminar by holding up a $20.00 bill. In the room of 200, he asked, "Who would like this $20 bill?"

Hands started going up.  He said, "I am going to give this $20 to one of you but first, let me do this."

He proceeded to crumple the dollar bill up.  He then asked, "Who still wants it?"


Still the hands were up in the air.  Well, he replied, "What if I do this?"

And he dropped it on the ground and started to grind it into the floor with his shoe.

He picked it up, now crumpled and dirty.  "Now who still wants it?"
Still the hands went into the air.

My friends, we have all learned a very valuable lesson.  No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it because it did not decrease in value. It was still worth $20.

Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt by the decisions we make and the circumstances that come our way.

We feel as though we are worthless.  But no matter what has happened or what will happen, you will never lose your value:
Dirty or clean, crumpled or finely creased, you are still priceless to those who love you.

 

The worth of our lives comes not in what we do or who we know, but by Who We Are.

 

You are special - Don't ever forget that. 

And don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

Accept yourself as being unique and wonderful.

Always remember that you are your own best friend.