I don't know why they hide their pain and clutch it ever tighter.
It seems to me that all should know - a burden
shared gets lighter.
Why some folks even deign to think the pain that's in their heart,
Is all their own, to keep
and hoard, they set themselves apart.
They keep their eyes from meeting mine
lest I should see their hurt.
And even if we stop and speak their words
are often curt.
The Bible says: 'Two' can withstand what overcomes just 'one'.
And also that - a 'Cord of Three'
can scarcely be undone.
Besides, I know the ways of hurt - My heart's been crushed before.
Friends have betrayed
- I've lost at love,
Despair's knocked at my door.
And I Remember - Thoughts gone wild - And crying late at night.
Not
having strength to care at all - Much less the strength to fight.
But, someone special came to me - And when my trials were told.
I realized that with their tears - They'd eased
my heavy load.
And so, I learned - that Pain - like Love - Is bearable if shared.
I don't know what I would have
done without that friend who cared.
My trials did not vanish fast - In fact the time was long.
But sharing gave
me breathing space until I could grow strong.
Enough to laugh again and even start to smile -
And though it seemed it could not help - It eased my pain awhile.
So,
if you think that you can't share cause I won't understand.
At least just give me half a chance to lend a helping hand.
For I know that you're hurting and I know a place to start.
Perhaps if you could realize - Your pain burns in
my heart.
I know I cannot make your trials and troubles go away.
But maybe I can help a bit to get you through today.
And maybe by tomorrow you wont need help anymore.
But if you should - Don't be ashamed -
For that's what friends
are for.
And after all is said and done - The trials ceased - You're whole.
Perhaps you'll know just what to do
to help another soul -
Who's being crushed by hurt and pain - be it woman or a man.
And you won't have to hear them
say "You just won't understand."